Live, Laugh, Love

Is there more to a man’s desires then just sex? Do men want more out of life? What drives them and makes them tick? If we just stop and listen, and I mean really listen. Listen through there ears and look through there eyes. We could learn so much about them.

So the answer to the question is….

No most men don’t just want sex. Do they desirer it yes? So what do they really want?

Through the ages men have strived hard to build a name for themselves. This name means everything to them. It defines there role in life, but most important it is who they are.

Just take a look at some of the guy movies like Brave Heart, Saving Privet Ryan, and many more. I am not talking about the movies that portray men as stupid. Though those movies are very popular, but they are a cut down on men.

They have tried to build there name in many ways. This has been done through gaining power, building, inventing, winning over a women, and conquering something. Just to name a few.

This is only a means for the end witch is respect. Respect is what it all comes down to. Women long to be loved and men long to be respected. In our world today we talk about how much women want to be loved and we do. This is then pushed onto the men witch do need to be loved, but not in the same way as woman. Men feel love when a woman respects him.

What is a woman’s respect? It is….

Conquest: Appreciating His Desire to Work & Achieve

Hierarchy: Appreciating His Desire to Protect & Provide

Authority: Appreciating His Desire to be Strong & to Lead (to make decisions)

Insight: Appreciating His Desire to Analyze & Counsel

Relationship: Appreciating His Desire for a Shoulder to Shoulder Friendship

Sexuality: Appreciating His Desire for Sexual Intimacy

One last thought.

Without love she reacts without respect. Without respect he reacts without love.

A couple of these thought are from the book Love & Respect by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs

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